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Our Sages teach about the tzaddikim; “le’bam be’rishutom/they are in full control over their hearts”. Additionally written in Pirkei Avot; “who is strong, the one who conquers his inclination (his heart, desire, passion, natural tendencies)”. A strong person is one who is in full control of his emotions.
Actions require intellect; we cannot rely on emotion alone. It is of great importance to think before we act and ask the questions: What am I about to do? Is it worth it? What will I gain or chas v’Shalom lose from it?
For example while experiencing marital challenges it is wise not to inquire about others and their marital experiences at that time as this may stir unconscious feelings of jealousy and resentment towards them. Rather, hold onto positive thoughts and reserve your energy to constructively move forward. Should you need to seek advice use it to rebuild; stay away from self-pity, jealousy or other negative emotions.
Cheshbonot Shamayim (heavenly calculations) are just. The particular struggles we go through are directly designed to assist our souls to grow. They are based on our eternal needs which may not be comfortable to deal with in this world but are for our ultimate good.
Today’s daily dose of emuna is dedicated to the complete healing of the mother of one of our daily dose of emuna readers Teresa daughter of Rose. May Hashem send her a complete healing in mind, body and soul soon, Amen.
