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Drench yourself with joy

February 6, 2014
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Ah… the joy of Shabbat.  Joy bestows upon us the gift of momentarily forgetting what is troubling us.  Joy depicts a state whereby we are happy in our minds and we do not ‘remember’ any of our sorrows.

Delight (oneg), which is the term used to describe a level of happiness on Shabbat, makes every part of our body resonate, not just our minds; an immense overflow of joy. In the merit (zechut) of reaching this lofty level of inner joy, our thirst for closeness and ability to grasp Torah knowledge is more easily attained.  As a result of drenching the additional soul with a level of joy, our entire being can now devote its strength to serving Hashem.

In order that we not get ‘caught up’ in the physical delight of the table delicacies, it is important that we stop at regular intervals and ‘feed our soul’ with Torah learning (divrei Torah).  In this way, the food serves as a pipeline to feed our passionate craving to bond with Borei Olam.

Singing enhances oneg Shabbat as it is one of the ways that Hashem gifted us to ‘reach’ Him in spite of His concealment (hester panim).  Music is the channel by which we expand our consciousness and begin to connect to our inner higher self, namely our neshama. For any of us who passionately wishes to remove the veil of concealment and connect to Borei Olam, the fountain of bracha is showered upon him when he sings from his inner core.  This is a true ‘high’.

Posting on behalf of member of the list:

As you and I know, there is a desperate situation of unmarried singles seemingly not being able to meet their match. A friend of mine and I would like to start an initiative doing something small for 10 singles from Rosh Chodesh Adar (which passed, but we can still join) until Purim.
This is what we’re proposing: Take on something small (see suggestions on the list below) with a bli neder that you will do during the next 6 weeks in the hope that 10 singles will find their match. If you don’t know 10 singles, then please e-mail to amyisrael3@gmail.com and we will send you some names that you can do it for. You can also send us any Hebrew names of any singles so that we can send out your friend’s names too, but please keep us posted if they do find their match.
Please forward this e-mail to whoever you feel would like to participate in this.
Tizku l’mitzvos

The suggestions (from R’ Kelati):

Say your benching from a Siddur

Picking one bracha from the amida for special concentration

say at least one kapital (chapter) tehillim daily with special concentration

give a set (small) amount to Tzedaka every day

Be careful not to say Loshon Hora for one hour per day

Take a toddler/baby for a walk or help play with the sibling while mummy is busy with the baby or other child(ren)

Do some shopping for the elderly in an old-age home or at their own home.

Visit the elderly or people in hospital to see if they need extra or special food

Making a loud bracha before and after eating/drinking for amen to be answered

Staying behind after minyan for 2 halachot from Mishna Berura

Setting aside 10 minutes a day to learn

Not talking during davening/kaddish – and if you have mastered this, don’t talk in shul at all

During Ashrei, concentrate on the verse “poteach et yadecha”

Spend 20-30 minutes less on the internet daily

Get off Facebook completely or at least partially

Go to a shiur or listen to an mp3 shiur at least once a week

Spend a set amount of extra (quality) time with your children

Make a Shabbat meal for a needy family

Help a friend or neighbor with their children

Get to shul five minutes early

Don’t leave davening at shul before Aleinu

Say “Asher yatzar” and “shema” at night from a Siddur

Learning 1 Shabbos halacha daily

Daven every day, “Please Ha-Shem, look after all your beloved children”

Give a pleasant (smiling) greeting to every person you meet in the day.

Offer to walk with an older person with mobility difficulties

Find time to learn with people who have learning difficulties

Start a chesed organization, or project, to help the community

Volunteer for Hatzola

Volunteer to help your local shul with security

Daven for someone who needs help during your amida

Don’t use your phone for 10 minutes after greeting your children from school

Laugh at the unexpected

February 5, 2014
Orit Esther Riter

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What causes us to laugh; being caught by surprise and witnessing the unexpected.  The more unprepared we are for what is coming, the harder we laugh.  In essence, laughter creates a sense of freedom from our expectations.  When our minds and hearts can no longer contain the joy we hold within, it breaks loose and comes forth from the mouth in the form of laughter.  How does this serve to guide us on our spiritual path particularly in Chodesh Adar?

In Tehillim (126:2) it is written, “Then our mouths will be filled with laughter…” After 120 years IY’H when the bigger picture is painted in front of us we will be able to truly laugh.  The challenges we experienced in this world will be unmasked and by contrast appear as moments of redemption.   Moments of hardships will be seen as irreplaceable opportunities for the soul’s rectification; clearly a reaction we cannot fathom in our current state.

Chodesh Adar teaches precisely this; v’nahafoch hu (everything is turned upside down); what appears as an unbearable hardship will eventually be seen as a source of great happiness.  On a subconscious level we know this to be true.  The story of Purim unmasks this concealed reality and thus we are enveloped with joy and laughter.

The Ba’al Shem Tov HaKadosh teaches that laughter has the power to redeem our constricted mindset from exile and cause our minds to perceive the truthful reality of Hashem’s involvement in every aspect of life for our ultimate best.  Happiness is connected to certainty as Chazal teaches us, “There is no joy so great as the elimination of doubt”.

Call it happiness, laughter, or living doubt-free – all they are are different words for the same word EMUNA.

 

Today’s Daily Dose of Emuna is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of Noam Avraham ben Galit, a 14 month old who is in ICU with meningitis.  May HaKadosh Baruch Hu send him a complete healing amongst all of Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen.

Happy?

February 4, 2014
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It is the duty of loyal servants to address the King with a happy disposition. A ‘Happy Hashem’ should be served by happy people!  Joyful singing should be part of our regular routine; to approach HaKadosh Baruch Hu with delightful tefillot filled with gratitude and praise.   What a privilege to have been chosen and continuously be guided by Him; just as a shepherd tends to his sheep.

As long as we view our lives as being led by a Kel ma’leh rachamim (merciful G-d), we are obligated to give immense thanks for the noticed, and mostly unnoticed yeshuot,  that constantly envelop us.  If we don’t express happiness in our lives, it is as though we aren’t satisfied and happy with our lot and expect more from Hashem, c”v.

A few symptoms that indicate that a person is suffering from an unhappy heart:

1)      He acts out of habit, without meaning, which causes a disconnection and ultimately leads to spiritual and emotional depression.

2)     He feels as though he is ‘doing Hashem a favor’ and views the mitzvot as burdensome.

3)     Eventually he can c”v lose interest in performing mitzvot altogether and become arrogant and negligent in serving Hashem.

Happiness is the only medicine that serves to prevent spiritual and emotional distress.  It wards off the negativity that destroys not only our outlook on life but our relationship with Hashem.  Living life with a sense of entitlement and expectation destroys happiness at its core. Let us be mindful to dismiss these thoughts as soon as they enter our minds.

Today’s daily dose of emuna is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of Chaya bat Beya who is undergoing important tests today.  B’H may the doctors deliver a clean slate of health and may all signs of illness leave her just as soon as they came.  May Chaya bat Beya merit a complete healing b’riut hanefesh v’b’riut haguf amongst all of Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen.

I volunteer to serve You Hashem!

February 3, 2014
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How do we pursue happiness?  After all it is Adar and we all want to tap into the special gift of this month.  When we look at Tehillim perek kuf (100), Mizmor l’Todah we see that it was part of the service when the korban todah (a thanksgiving offering) was brought to the Beit HaMikdash.  Yet, this offering was voluntary.  Why was this korban not mandated?

Hashem instructs us on the many ways to conduct ourselves in our daily lives. However, when it comes to appreciation we are not commanded to express gratitude.  The reason is so that we may naturally develop our own sense of recognition and appreciation for all the goodness that Hashem bestows upon us. Hashem mandates that we fear and love Him, yet we are not given specific direction as to how to achieve these emotions, only guiding advice.  We are asked to develop these feelings and attain them as part of the scheme of ‘free will’.   This is one of the main reasons this perek is part of the morning tefillah – so that we internalize the message before we go about our daily activities.

This perek is written as a proclamation of thanks and a request for others to join in his singing words of appreciation.  You can ‘feel’ his jubilance in every expression and his desire to share it with others.  Sadness is contagious; but so is joy and we should therefore share and use it to uplift others.

We are taught a remarkable lesson by reading this perek daily. Serve Hashem with the same joyful enthusiasm as the one who offered a voluntary offering of thanks.  This broadcasts our tremendous love for Hashem emphasizing the fact that serving Him is not a burden, but something we wish to do voluntarily.

Today’s daily dose of emuna is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of Shimon ben Mindle who was hit by a car and is going to need long term intervention.  May he merit a complete healing amongst all of those in Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen.

Don’t get excited…it’s just a show!

January 30, 2014
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Thanks to all who have contributed to this cause in the past.  This goes 100% directly to the soon to be wedded couple. A special request came my way via close friends of ours in Monsey, NY.  A 22-year-old boy, Yehuda from Yerushalayim, is getting married B’H on the 5th of Adar A’.  He is the oldest of 11 children, father is a Sofer Stam, family is extremely poor, and their home is maxed in mortgage funds. Please, if there is anything that anyone can contribute to assist this amazing talmid, it is desperately needed. Pass it on. You can contact his uncle in Monsey Yaron Yehuda at email:  Yaron2802@gmail.com.  Tizku’ l’mitzvot.

 

All week long our mind races endlessly – we are stuck in the world of commerce.  The important questions in life like, ‘Why am I here in this world’ finds a difficult time gaining attention.  Rav Avigdor Miller ztk’l teaches that on Shabbat we must abstain from the mundane habits that occupy us so we may pay attention to questions like these.

The goal of refraining from these habits is to prevent us from becoming slaves onto this world.  The Chovot Halevavot teaches that we were given the gift of Shabbat so that our minds cease being enslaved to the ‘thinking’ of this world.   Shabbat encourages us to shift our minds and relish in menucha (peacefulness). This mental and physical state of disconnecting from the world enables us to get to ‘know’ Hashem.  In as much as we are able to ‘empty’ out our minds from thinking about this world and all that we didn’t complete and all that awaits us on motzei Shabbat, we will make room for the much needed state of menuchat hanefesh (peace of mind) to enter.

This world is imaginary.  The only thing that is real is Hashem.  The RamBam is Hilchot Yesodei Torah writes, ‘Hu Levado Emet (He is the only One who is true {reality})’, all of the rest is an illusion.  Consequently, when we worry and grow anxious about anything in life, it is the yetzer hara placing shadows and phantoms for us to get ‘excited’ over.

We hustle and bustle running around, planning and fixing, confused over what will happen next; we get ‘excited’ over the well-planned show. The Gemara in Masechet Shabbat then teaches us a remarkable lesson, ‘When you make kiddush, you restore your eyesight.’  How?  By saying the words, “…vayachulu HaShamayim v’ha’aretz v’kol Tzeva’am… (… and the Heavens and earth were completed, and all their hosts…)”.

You think you are in control; well that is if you worry.  What are you getting ‘excited’ about?  Kiddush realigns our thinking by reminding us that Hashem made everything from start to its completion and it is only Him who controls it all.  How important it is for us to hear this reminder every erev Shabbat.  B’H may we internalize its message so that it carries us throughout the week as well.

 

Emuna is the bridge

January 29, 2014
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Emuna originates from the heavenly sphere where the upper lights and creative forces originate.  Our soul stems from this lofty place and once experienced this immense G-dly light directly.  The desire to connect back to this light is the soul’s only desire and mission; the purpose of her existence.

The neshama ‘remembers’ the delight she once experienced.  It is deeply engraved in her.  Unconsciously, we (our bodies) seek pleasure yet we do not understand that this sensation comes from the soul’s desire to bond with that place where all goodness derives from Hashem Yitborach.

Emuna is the bridge that connects the upper and lower worlds.  To have emuna means to connect our worldly experiences and define their relevance according to Heavenly terms.  Seeing worldly happenings through the eyes of the soul, through emuna eyes, creates an entirely new reality, a new pair of lenses.

Let’s look at the purity of a child – their simplicity and wholeheartedness.  Adults feel as though they are speaking to a soul and not the body of a little person.  They are real and not blocked by impurities – until they get older and the outer world has impacted their way of thinking.   A child is simple and sincere.  They know how to say “I don’t know” when they don’t.  Children aren’t intimidated by society and the opinion of others.  They are guided by their internal compass called the soul.

We should learn from the ways of children.  Their sincerity and care when you talk to them, their ability to be in touch with their feelings and their innocent non-judgmental outlook can serve as emuna 101 classes for every one of us.

Today’s daily dose is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of  Shepsel Chana bas Braindel who was recently diagnosed with advanced stage breast cancer.  Please may Hashem shower her with a complete healing amongst all of those sick and suffering in Klal Yisrael b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen.

 

A new vision

January 28, 2014
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Living life mindfully (aware of what is happening around and within us) is certainly of important value to increasing our emuna. Yet, this is a stepping stone. The next level we strive to reach and which occurs quite naturally as a result of our new-founded expanded awareness, is that our minds become attuned to a new way of thinking that never was before. We begin seeing Hashem in places, people, objects and events – a new vision of life begins to emerge ‘seemingly’ out of nowhere.  In spite of the fact that emotional work may require strength and effort, be assured that the outcome is irreplaceable; a polished point of view on life.

The goal in learning the significant value of living life ‘awake’ and in tune with the world within and without, is intended to transform our way of thinking on a deep, pure level.  This delightful way of living brings with it a new experience when reciting the bracha, ‘Baruch Atah Hashem…” “Blessed are You Hashem”:  we sense Hashem even more closely Whose honor fills the world

Yes, this sounds like an unattainable level, but with ratzon (will) and practice this ‘naturally’ occurs.  Through the daily exercise of becoming cognizant of the messages in life, our physical eyes begin to see as our soul does.  The soul indeed sees Hashem in everything but our bodies impede us from tapping into this lofty vision.

Being aware of Hashem’s presence in our lives exchanges our confused reality to a clearly painted truthful reality.  How can it not when the soul is at the forefront?

Today’s Daily Dose of Emuna is dedicated to my dear friend Shoshana Shulamit bat Sara Liba.  May HaKadosh Baruch Hu gift her with a complete healing amongst all of Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen.

The hiding soul

January 27, 2014
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Today’s Daily Dose of Emuna is sponsored and dedicated with such beauty by one of our readers to the refuah shleimah of all the sick in Klal Yisrael.  May Hashem with His kind heart and His good will bless all of the women who are trying to get pregnant but having trouble merit having a healthy baby B’H this year!  And may the women who are pregnant have an easy pregnancy and a healthy quick labor and be gifted with healthy righteous beautiful babies, Amen!

To sponsor and dedicate a Daily Dose of Emuna lesson for a minimum contribution of $18.00 (can be used as ma’aser money) please contact oritriter@gmail.com.

As we learned last week every emotion (even if born out of mundane occurrences) and every spout of inspiration contains within it a message from our soul.  Whatever the cause may be that is upsetting and causing us frustration we must turn to Hashem since this is the way that He speaks to us, through our feelings.  There is no one and no where else to turn but to ask Hashem for help. What kind of help?  We ask for clarity of mind and understanding and for the ability to accept and internalize that everything is for the best.

One of the most difficult tasks in this world is to live life mindfully; to be aware of what is happening inside and outside of ourselves.  Acknowledging and accepting our feelings while letting go of those that harm us carves the path for healthier relationships with ourselves, those around us and of course Hashem. If we are boggled down with emotional turmoil and dismiss our feelings, we miss out on the prime opportunity to understand our soul’s needs and complete her rectification.

Our soul is hiding under layers of ‘covers’ and is a spring that waits to burst forth.  However we must dig and search for cracks in our soul and always strive to expose her light.  With each time that we tend to our various emotions, we expose our soul more and more thus making it easier for her to wake up with passion and inspiration more easily.  We can sensitize our mind to the point where we will see Hashem in everything…. just listen to your heart!

It is good to say thank you

January 23, 2014
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Today, 22nd of Shvat, is the yahrtzeit of Rabbi Menachem Mendel of Kotzk, Poland (1787-1859), the great chassidic leader known as the Kotzker Rebbe, ztk’l. He was said to be completely uncompromising in the quest for faith, honesty and truth. He abhorred rote piety, and taught his followers that they must renew their quest for self-knowledge and truth on a daily basis. He is known for his sharp wit and catchy phrases, for example: “Where is God? Wherever you let Him in”.  May he serve as an advocate for Klal Yisrael up on high, Amen!

Perek Tzadek-Bet of tehillim is commonly recited on Shabbat. Thanking Hashem is good for us; emotionally as well as spiritually.  Uttering words of thanks to Hashem is but a small return for the great compassion that He showers upon us daily.  Saying ‘thank you’ is always ‘fashionable’ and ‘in style’; it never ceases being ‘in’.

The birds sing songs of tehillim to Borei Olam – nature teaches us that mankind must practice the same.  Silent gratitude is wonderful… however vocally expressing words of thanks is sweeter!  When we deprive our tongue of speaking words of appreciation we practice something unnatural.  Our tongues crave to sing inspiring words of praise to Hashem – we act foolishly if we ‘stop’ them from doing so. Shabbat particularly lends itself to singing words of praise for all the good that goes noticed and unnoticed in our lives.

All days should begin with words of gratitude; no hour is too early.  The mornings begin with the giving of the daily manna to Klal Yisrael; how appropriate it is to sing to HaKadosh Baruch Hu then.  In the evening our minds settle with an accounting of the day, a review of Hashems personal intervention in all of our dealings.  It is also certainly an ideal time to feel His presence, declare our emuna (faithfulness) and pour out words of appreciation.

Our lives are full of hardships and challenges that defy logic on how they could possibly serve any good for us.  Yet, Hashem choose Ahm Yisrael and proclaimed, ‘You are above nature’.  Thus, we have the ability individually and collectively to see and think above our natural ‘intellectual, rationale’ minds and believe in the holy truthful words of the Torah, even if they ‘logically’ and ‘emotionally’ don’t feel good.

Hashem loves us.  Every day, in particular on Shabbat, let us show how much we love Him too.

Today’s Dose of Emuna is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of two beautiful children who are in critical condition still as a result of extermination poisoning that occurred in their home in Yerushalayim yesterday.  Their two sisters have r”l passed away from it.  Their names are Raphael Yitzchok Isaac ben Michal and Shlomo ben Michal.  May HaKadosh Baruch Hu shower the Gross family with koach and emuna to see them through this extreme time of difficulty and may the two boys merit an immediate complete healing b’riut hanefesh v’b’riut haguf amongst all those in Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen!

The soul speaks…

January 22, 2014
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Maintaining a joyful outlook on life is hinged on two important factors: expanding our consciousness (in other words, going through life mindful as discussed in yesterday’s emuna email lesson) and paying close attention to our feelings by softening our hearts, which we will talk about today.

We all have concerns on one level or another. Delving into those issues with vivid imagery causes our hearts to swell with emotions.  Worrying and becoming anxious over them melts our hearts.  This is a prime opportunity to direct our feelings towards Hashem in passionate tefillah when our hearts are filled with emotions and our spirit is awakened.

All feelings originate from the soul, even those that are ‘dressed’ in worldly matters.  They communicate the soul’s needs.  Tehillim teaches, ‘Lift your eyes to the mountains’.  The soul says – Remember you have no one to rely on but Hashem.

Our feelings in life serve one purpose; to connect us to our soul, thus to Hashem.  For example, when we feel confused and unsettled, we should pour out our hearts and have faith in Hashem’s strength to get us through.  By contrast, when we are joyful and our soul is jubilant, we should express tremendous gratitude for Hashem’s endless kindness.

Our emotions are powerful and ‘loud’ in order to wake us up. Hearing the voice of our soul, our feelings, causes us to live life mindfully.  If we feed it physical pleasures we are not sustaining it with the correct ‘food’.  We must take notice of what is happening within and without as this is how Hashem ‘talks’ to us.

Today’s Dose of Emuna is sponsored and dedicated to the refuah shleimah of Miriam Bracha bat Sarah who is 21 years old.  She came down with pneumonia and the Asian flu and is currently unresponsive and on a respirator. May she merit a complete healing,  b’riut hanefesh v’b’riut haguf amongst all those in Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen!

If you wish to sponsor and dedicate a Daily Dose of Emuna lesson for someone please contact oritriter@gmail.com.  Suggested minimum contribution is only $18.00 and is 100% ma’aser money going towards Torah and emuna learning.

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