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I volunteer to serve You Hashem!

February 3, 2014
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How do we pursue happiness?  After all it is Adar and we all want to tap into the special gift of this month.  When we look at Tehillim perek kuf (100), Mizmor l’Todah we see that it was part of the service when the korban todah (a thanksgiving offering) was brought to the Beit HaMikdash.  Yet, this offering was voluntary.  Why was this korban not mandated?

Hashem instructs us on the many ways to conduct ourselves in our daily lives. However, when it comes to appreciation we are not commanded to express gratitude.  The reason is so that we may naturally develop our own sense of recognition and appreciation for all the goodness that Hashem bestows upon us. Hashem mandates that we fear and love Him, yet we are not given specific direction as to how to achieve these emotions, only guiding advice.  We are asked to develop these feelings and attain them as part of the scheme of ‘free will’.   This is one of the main reasons this perek is part of the morning tefillah – so that we internalize the message before we go about our daily activities.

This perek is written as a proclamation of thanks and a request for others to join in his singing words of appreciation.  You can ‘feel’ his jubilance in every expression and his desire to share it with others.  Sadness is contagious; but so is joy and we should therefore share and use it to uplift others.

We are taught a remarkable lesson by reading this perek daily. Serve Hashem with the same joyful enthusiasm as the one who offered a voluntary offering of thanks.  This broadcasts our tremendous love for Hashem emphasizing the fact that serving Him is not a burden, but something we wish to do voluntarily.

Today’s daily dose of emuna is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of Shimon ben Mindle who was hit by a car and is going to need long term intervention.  May he merit a complete healing amongst all of those in Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen.

Don’t get excited…it’s just a show!

January 30, 2014
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Thanks to all who have contributed to this cause in the past.  This goes 100% directly to the soon to be wedded couple. A special request came my way via close friends of ours in Monsey, NY.  A 22-year-old boy, Yehuda from Yerushalayim, is getting married B’H on the 5th of Adar A’.  He is the oldest of 11 children, father is a Sofer Stam, family is extremely poor, and their home is maxed in mortgage funds. Please, if there is anything that anyone can contribute to assist this amazing talmid, it is desperately needed. Pass it on. You can contact his uncle in Monsey Yaron Yehuda at email:  Yaron2802@gmail.com.  Tizku’ l’mitzvot.

 

All week long our mind races endlessly – we are stuck in the world of commerce.  The important questions in life like, ‘Why am I here in this world’ finds a difficult time gaining attention.  Rav Avigdor Miller ztk’l teaches that on Shabbat we must abstain from the mundane habits that occupy us so we may pay attention to questions like these.

The goal of refraining from these habits is to prevent us from becoming slaves onto this world.  The Chovot Halevavot teaches that we were given the gift of Shabbat so that our minds cease being enslaved to the ‘thinking’ of this world.   Shabbat encourages us to shift our minds and relish in menucha (peacefulness). This mental and physical state of disconnecting from the world enables us to get to ‘know’ Hashem.  In as much as we are able to ‘empty’ out our minds from thinking about this world and all that we didn’t complete and all that awaits us on motzei Shabbat, we will make room for the much needed state of menuchat hanefesh (peace of mind) to enter.

This world is imaginary.  The only thing that is real is Hashem.  The RamBam is Hilchot Yesodei Torah writes, ‘Hu Levado Emet (He is the only One who is true {reality})’, all of the rest is an illusion.  Consequently, when we worry and grow anxious about anything in life, it is the yetzer hara placing shadows and phantoms for us to get ‘excited’ over.

We hustle and bustle running around, planning and fixing, confused over what will happen next; we get ‘excited’ over the well-planned show. The Gemara in Masechet Shabbat then teaches us a remarkable lesson, ‘When you make kiddush, you restore your eyesight.’  How?  By saying the words, “…vayachulu HaShamayim v’ha’aretz v’kol Tzeva’am… (… and the Heavens and earth were completed, and all their hosts…)”.

You think you are in control; well that is if you worry.  What are you getting ‘excited’ about?  Kiddush realigns our thinking by reminding us that Hashem made everything from start to its completion and it is only Him who controls it all.  How important it is for us to hear this reminder every erev Shabbat.  B’H may we internalize its message so that it carries us throughout the week as well.

 

Emuna is the bridge

January 29, 2014
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Emuna originates from the heavenly sphere where the upper lights and creative forces originate.  Our soul stems from this lofty place and once experienced this immense G-dly light directly.  The desire to connect back to this light is the soul’s only desire and mission; the purpose of her existence.

The neshama ‘remembers’ the delight she once experienced.  It is deeply engraved in her.  Unconsciously, we (our bodies) seek pleasure yet we do not understand that this sensation comes from the soul’s desire to bond with that place where all goodness derives from Hashem Yitborach.

Emuna is the bridge that connects the upper and lower worlds.  To have emuna means to connect our worldly experiences and define their relevance according to Heavenly terms.  Seeing worldly happenings through the eyes of the soul, through emuna eyes, creates an entirely new reality, a new pair of lenses.

Let’s look at the purity of a child – their simplicity and wholeheartedness.  Adults feel as though they are speaking to a soul and not the body of a little person.  They are real and not blocked by impurities – until they get older and the outer world has impacted their way of thinking.   A child is simple and sincere.  They know how to say “I don’t know” when they don’t.  Children aren’t intimidated by society and the opinion of others.  They are guided by their internal compass called the soul.

We should learn from the ways of children.  Their sincerity and care when you talk to them, their ability to be in touch with their feelings and their innocent non-judgmental outlook can serve as emuna 101 classes for every one of us.

Today’s daily dose is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of  Shepsel Chana bas Braindel who was recently diagnosed with advanced stage breast cancer.  Please may Hashem shower her with a complete healing amongst all of those sick and suffering in Klal Yisrael b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen.

 

A new vision

January 28, 2014
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Living life mindfully (aware of what is happening around and within us) is certainly of important value to increasing our emuna. Yet, this is a stepping stone. The next level we strive to reach and which occurs quite naturally as a result of our new-founded expanded awareness, is that our minds become attuned to a new way of thinking that never was before. We begin seeing Hashem in places, people, objects and events – a new vision of life begins to emerge ‘seemingly’ out of nowhere.  In spite of the fact that emotional work may require strength and effort, be assured that the outcome is irreplaceable; a polished point of view on life.

The goal in learning the significant value of living life ‘awake’ and in tune with the world within and without, is intended to transform our way of thinking on a deep, pure level.  This delightful way of living brings with it a new experience when reciting the bracha, ‘Baruch Atah Hashem…” “Blessed are You Hashem”:  we sense Hashem even more closely Whose honor fills the world

Yes, this sounds like an unattainable level, but with ratzon (will) and practice this ‘naturally’ occurs.  Through the daily exercise of becoming cognizant of the messages in life, our physical eyes begin to see as our soul does.  The soul indeed sees Hashem in everything but our bodies impede us from tapping into this lofty vision.

Being aware of Hashem’s presence in our lives exchanges our confused reality to a clearly painted truthful reality.  How can it not when the soul is at the forefront?

Today’s Daily Dose of Emuna is dedicated to my dear friend Shoshana Shulamit bat Sara Liba.  May HaKadosh Baruch Hu gift her with a complete healing amongst all of Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen.

The hiding soul

January 27, 2014
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Today’s Daily Dose of Emuna is sponsored and dedicated with such beauty by one of our readers to the refuah shleimah of all the sick in Klal Yisrael.  May Hashem with His kind heart and His good will bless all of the women who are trying to get pregnant but having trouble merit having a healthy baby B’H this year!  And may the women who are pregnant have an easy pregnancy and a healthy quick labor and be gifted with healthy righteous beautiful babies, Amen!

To sponsor and dedicate a Daily Dose of Emuna lesson for a minimum contribution of $18.00 (can be used as ma’aser money) please contact oritriter@gmail.com.

As we learned last week every emotion (even if born out of mundane occurrences) and every spout of inspiration contains within it a message from our soul.  Whatever the cause may be that is upsetting and causing us frustration we must turn to Hashem since this is the way that He speaks to us, through our feelings.  There is no one and no where else to turn but to ask Hashem for help. What kind of help?  We ask for clarity of mind and understanding and for the ability to accept and internalize that everything is for the best.

One of the most difficult tasks in this world is to live life mindfully; to be aware of what is happening inside and outside of ourselves.  Acknowledging and accepting our feelings while letting go of those that harm us carves the path for healthier relationships with ourselves, those around us and of course Hashem. If we are boggled down with emotional turmoil and dismiss our feelings, we miss out on the prime opportunity to understand our soul’s needs and complete her rectification.

Our soul is hiding under layers of ‘covers’ and is a spring that waits to burst forth.  However we must dig and search for cracks in our soul and always strive to expose her light.  With each time that we tend to our various emotions, we expose our soul more and more thus making it easier for her to wake up with passion and inspiration more easily.  We can sensitize our mind to the point where we will see Hashem in everything…. just listen to your heart!

It is good to say thank you

January 23, 2014
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Today, 22nd of Shvat, is the yahrtzeit of Rabbi Menachem Mendel of Kotzk, Poland (1787-1859), the great chassidic leader known as the Kotzker Rebbe, ztk’l. He was said to be completely uncompromising in the quest for faith, honesty and truth. He abhorred rote piety, and taught his followers that they must renew their quest for self-knowledge and truth on a daily basis. He is known for his sharp wit and catchy phrases, for example: “Where is God? Wherever you let Him in”.  May he serve as an advocate for Klal Yisrael up on high, Amen!

Perek Tzadek-Bet of tehillim is commonly recited on Shabbat. Thanking Hashem is good for us; emotionally as well as spiritually.  Uttering words of thanks to Hashem is but a small return for the great compassion that He showers upon us daily.  Saying ‘thank you’ is always ‘fashionable’ and ‘in style’; it never ceases being ‘in’.

The birds sing songs of tehillim to Borei Olam – nature teaches us that mankind must practice the same.  Silent gratitude is wonderful… however vocally expressing words of thanks is sweeter!  When we deprive our tongue of speaking words of appreciation we practice something unnatural.  Our tongues crave to sing inspiring words of praise to Hashem – we act foolishly if we ‘stop’ them from doing so. Shabbat particularly lends itself to singing words of praise for all the good that goes noticed and unnoticed in our lives.

All days should begin with words of gratitude; no hour is too early.  The mornings begin with the giving of the daily manna to Klal Yisrael; how appropriate it is to sing to HaKadosh Baruch Hu then.  In the evening our minds settle with an accounting of the day, a review of Hashems personal intervention in all of our dealings.  It is also certainly an ideal time to feel His presence, declare our emuna (faithfulness) and pour out words of appreciation.

Our lives are full of hardships and challenges that defy logic on how they could possibly serve any good for us.  Yet, Hashem choose Ahm Yisrael and proclaimed, ‘You are above nature’.  Thus, we have the ability individually and collectively to see and think above our natural ‘intellectual, rationale’ minds and believe in the holy truthful words of the Torah, even if they ‘logically’ and ‘emotionally’ don’t feel good.

Hashem loves us.  Every day, in particular on Shabbat, let us show how much we love Him too.

Today’s Dose of Emuna is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of two beautiful children who are in critical condition still as a result of extermination poisoning that occurred in their home in Yerushalayim yesterday.  Their two sisters have r”l passed away from it.  Their names are Raphael Yitzchok Isaac ben Michal and Shlomo ben Michal.  May HaKadosh Baruch Hu shower the Gross family with koach and emuna to see them through this extreme time of difficulty and may the two boys merit an immediate complete healing b’riut hanefesh v’b’riut haguf amongst all those in Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen!

The soul speaks…

January 22, 2014
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Maintaining a joyful outlook on life is hinged on two important factors: expanding our consciousness (in other words, going through life mindful as discussed in yesterday’s emuna email lesson) and paying close attention to our feelings by softening our hearts, which we will talk about today.

We all have concerns on one level or another. Delving into those issues with vivid imagery causes our hearts to swell with emotions.  Worrying and becoming anxious over them melts our hearts.  This is a prime opportunity to direct our feelings towards Hashem in passionate tefillah when our hearts are filled with emotions and our spirit is awakened.

All feelings originate from the soul, even those that are ‘dressed’ in worldly matters.  They communicate the soul’s needs.  Tehillim teaches, ‘Lift your eyes to the mountains’.  The soul says – Remember you have no one to rely on but Hashem.

Our feelings in life serve one purpose; to connect us to our soul, thus to Hashem.  For example, when we feel confused and unsettled, we should pour out our hearts and have faith in Hashem’s strength to get us through.  By contrast, when we are joyful and our soul is jubilant, we should express tremendous gratitude for Hashem’s endless kindness.

Our emotions are powerful and ‘loud’ in order to wake us up. Hearing the voice of our soul, our feelings, causes us to live life mindfully.  If we feed it physical pleasures we are not sustaining it with the correct ‘food’.  We must take notice of what is happening within and without as this is how Hashem ‘talks’ to us.

Today’s Dose of Emuna is sponsored and dedicated to the refuah shleimah of Miriam Bracha bat Sarah who is 21 years old.  She came down with pneumonia and the Asian flu and is currently unresponsive and on a respirator. May she merit a complete healing,  b’riut hanefesh v’b’riut haguf amongst all those in Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen!

If you wish to sponsor and dedicate a Daily Dose of Emuna lesson for someone please contact oritriter@gmail.com.  Suggested minimum contribution is only $18.00 and is 100% ma’aser money going towards Torah and emuna learning.

A happy person

January 21, 2014
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A special request came my way via close friends of ours in Monsey, NY.  A 22-year-old boy, Yehuda from Yerushalayim, is getting married B’H on the 5th of Adar A’.  He is the oldest of 11 children, father is a Sofer Stam, family is extremely poor, and their home is maxed in mortgage funds. Please, if there is anything that anyone can contribute to assist this amazing talmid, it is desperately needed. Pass it on. You can contact his uncle in Monsey Yaron Yehuda at email:  Yaron2802@gmail.com.  Tizku’ l’mitzvot.

Filling our lives with mindfulness that Hashem is with us, intimately involved in every thought, deed and word, embraces us with complete joy.  There is nothing as sweet and pleasant as meriting a warm hug by Hashem after we experience His personal involvement in our lives.

One of the main emotional states that stop us from sensing this closeness is sadness. When our hearts are twisted and embittered, even in the very hour that Hashem is helping us, we will not be able to feel His nearness.  Our minds become constricted and hearts turn dull, deadening all emotions.

Depression numbs the heart and mind causing it to become disoriented through life’s travels.  A downtrodden mindset cannot relate or internalize goodness of any sort.  A practical solution to combat this state is to strengthen our mindfulness and awareness of life’s gifts at those intervals when we are inspired and on a spiritual high.  This timeframe leaves in its tracks a state of expanded consciousness which stays aflame even after the moment passes.  It injects us with lasting joy and strengthens our mind to actively fight sadness whenever it arises.

Once we accustom ourselves to being joyful, people will be drawn to us like magnets.  Being that almost everyone is packed with sorrow and confusion, when they spot a person with a delightful glow, they yearn to ‘rub elbows’ and learn from their ways.   This is proof of how much the world covets the image of a happy person and wishes to live so.

Today’s Daily Dose of Emuna is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of Hadas Shimrit bat Chaya, a young woman who is suffering from a fatal brain tumor. May she merit a complete healing, b’riut hanefesh v’b’riut haguf, amongst all those in Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen!

If  you wish to sponsor and dedicate a daily emuna lesson please contact oritriter@gmail.com.  Suggested minimum donation is $18.00 and is considered 100% ma’aser money going towards Torah and emuna learning. 

What does it mean to be happy?

January 20, 2014
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What does is mean to be happy?  It is the genuine form of redemption.  We don’t have to wait until Mashiach comes.  If we live a life of joy then we are surrounded by Mashiach’s light already now!

Joy is a type of ammunition we pull out every time life throws us a curve ball. Where does this joy originate from? When we clearly see the truthful reality that Hashem, no one else but Him, is always by our side.  This burns away any feeling of happenstance, unluckiness, self-pity and disappointment.  We must constantly remind ourselves that everything serves a higher purpose, nothing ‘just happens.’ It didn’t just ‘happen’ to rain, or ‘out of nowhere’ you saw…

The AriZal proclaimed before his disciples that he reached his high level of holiness as a result of focusing on joy before fulfilling any mitzvah.   The key point here is ‘focus’ and ‘concentrate’ on how special life is.  It takes effort to be happy, but it is our choice and within everyone’s command.

Dwelling on the past or being anxious over the future disables us from living in the moment. We are repeatedly taught in Torah, “If you will listen to His voice today…”, “…and these words that I command you today…”,  “And you shall know today and settle in your heart that Hashem is G-d… there is no other.” Think about right now.  We only live one moment since we have no control over what lies in the future. If we bring the past into our lives it infects our present life.

Being happy is directly linked to seeing purpose in everything.  Hence, where there is meaning, there is clarity, light and gladdening of the heart!  This is where we find Hashem!

Today’s daily dose is sponsored and dedicated to the refuah shleimah of Sara Gittel bas Chana Roiza.  May the doctor be a good shaliach and deliver a clean slate of health for Sara Gittel bas Chana Roiza amongst all of Klal Yisrael, Amen!

If you wish to sponsor and dedicate a daily emuna lesson for a minimum suggested contribution of $18 please contact oritriter@gmail.com.  All money is considered 100% ma’aser and goes toward Torah and emuna learning.

 

A wish for Tu B’Shvat

January 16, 2014
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I would like to be a tree full of life!  What parts of me need strengthening to become a lively tree filled with fresh fruits?

I look at my roots and wonder where did they come from and how are they being nourished?  What is grounding me and giving me stability in my life?  I wish to deepen the roots further into the ground so that I will not sway and tumble!  I don’t want my life to be affected by my unstable set of emotions.  I ask Hashem please help me dig further into the ground and more secure in my beliefs.

The only pathway to achieve this balance is by talking to You and connecting to You through prayer. Tefillah is the support column for me to lean on when I loose clarity and purpose; my connection to You provides the answer to all life’s questions.  I need to deepen my Torah learning for  that is what waters my trees roots and guides me on my path of growth.

The trunk of a tree represents our spiritual pathway in life with branches that grow right, left and in every direction.  Where do I go?  Do the winds cause me to deviate from the trail I am traveling?  Does the weather cause my branches to wither away?  The nisyonot in my life should not weaken me.

I want to provide shade to those around me, fruits filled with vitamins of love and embrace the world positively.  This is my wish on Tu B’Shvat…what is yours?

Today’s Daily Dose of Emuna is sponsored and dedicated for the refuah shleimah of Sara Yitel bas Madal Rut and for a zivug hanachon, b’karov, b’mazal tov for Malka Shoshana bas Tzivya, Baila Leah bas Hinda and Ita Tzivya bas Rut amongst all of the singles of Klal Yisrael, Amen!

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