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Today’s daily dose of emuna is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of Daniel Moshe ben Rochel Hatun. May Hashem open the eyes of his doctors to clearly see and diagnose his medical issues and may he merit a complete healing b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen.

Sefer Pirkei Eliezer (a Midrashic work originated with the Tanna Rabbi Eliezer ben Hurcanus, a disciple of Rabbi Yochanan ben Zakai) teaches many beautiful lessons concerning the two battling forces in our nefesh. They are called koach hasechel (intellectual force) and koach ha’emuna (force of emuna). Chazal teach that the force of intellect alludes to water and the force of emuna refers to earthiness.

The power of water is portrayed in its desire to go beyond its limits; to cleanse and purify its surrounding in spite of its borders attempting to contain it. We witness this phenomenon on the shores as we see the sea attempting to push its way onto the sand. Human intellect is similar. It wishes to break all boundaries and grasp every corner.

Undoubtedly this is by G-dly design and for great purpose, yet one must be careful not to allow intellect to take over one’s life. The danger in allowing intellect to conquer our lives becomes clear when exploring its origin; gaiva (arrogance). Just as the sea waves look to force their way beyond their borders not concerned with the likely destruction it will cause, so too a limitless level of intellect eventually causes self-destruction.

Here we find a hidden pearl of Torah wisdom. In Hashem’s Infinite wisdom He placed a limit on human intellect to enable us to benefit from it without harm. The soul’s force called Emuna is the boundary which Hashem created to safeguard us from misusing our intellect and use it to improve and grow. More tomorrow…

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Today’s daily dose of emuna is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of Aharon ben Perel. May Hashem grant him a complete healing among all of Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen!

They say “man plans and G-d laughs”. When our plans are side-tracked with unforeseen circumstances, we may be drawn to ask ‘why?’  Why me? Why now?

Our relationship to Hashem is often dependent on His ability to fulfil our needs and desires. As human beings, we naturally desire pleasure and comfort. When we are showered with (what we define as) good, we generally do not question Hashem’s ways. If life‘s events do not clash with our perception of good or comfortable, then we are not provoked to question His Divine plan. We merely take things for granted and expect them to flow as we believe they should. However, if our needs and comforts are not met, we may begin to question His ways. This mistaken outlook is a product of our own limited egos, a lack of knowledge of the full picture, and a lack of emuna that everything that happens is for our best.

Our imagination falsely directs our lives and defines happiness based on worldly pleasure. Yet, we cannot serve Hashem on condition and such a mistaken outlook cannot be revamped or adjusted. Rather, we must strive to completely remove such an erroneous belief. Our relationship with Hashem should mirror an ideal marriage, which is love and affection with no expectations or conditions attached. We cannot allow resentment to creep in the moment our expectations are not met. If this is the case, it would be wise to examine our relationships, particularly that with our Creator so that we may derive more unconditional love and satisfaction independent of whether our own conditions and expectations are met. Just as our Creator is infinite, so too should our love for Him be infinite.

Our definition of good is limited by the finite nature of this world and by our limited perspective. In actual fact, the greatest good that Hashem can bestow upon us is the gift of life in the World to Come – eternal life and eternal closeness to Hashem. In this world we have no concept of the true definition of ‘good’. Hashem provides for our needs in this world in order to enable us to earn that which is eternally good. The true purpose of this world is to build our eternity in the Next World. When we internalize this belief, then our definition of ‘good’ is turned on its head as we realize that when we follow His precepts, everything that happens really is good. 

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Today’s daily dose of emuna is dedicated to the yeshuot  and nechamot, hatzlachot and brachot of Klal Yisrael.  We should learn to love, unite and return to our Divine mission without sorrow or hardship and mend our ways to merit the building of our 3rd and final Beit HaMikdash b’mheria, b’yameinu, Amen.

As we learn to live with Emuna we need to adjust the way we relate to Hashem.  Most of us relate to Hashem based on condition.  For example, a person wakes up daily to a sunny morning washes his face, drinks his coffee and goes to work.  He expects life to run smoothly without any ‘unforeseen circumstances’ and never questions ‘why’ it is so.

Let’s take this further. He is told by his boss that he is due for a raise and will be awarded a great sum retroactive.  Wow.  Does he ask why or how things became this way?  Certainly not.  However what if he woke up to a morning where his car broke down on the way to work?  Or his stomach hurt?  Or he got laid off from work?  His first reaction is why… what happened here?

When life takes us where we ‘want’ to go, we never stop to ask ‘why’.  It is only when Hashem changes the course of our lives to our ‘disliking’ that we begin to question His ways.  This brings forth a most important point in the way we relate to Hashem; one which we should work to change.

There is a point in our brain that defines the way we relate to reality; it is called koach hamedameh (imagination).  This starting point posits a theory on reality.  Our presumptions on life were formed by many factors; childhood, key mentors and surrounding, science, etc. These assumptions are very personal and have an extremely powerful effect on our lives.

Imagination is fed by our personal desire to want a ‘good life’.  From the moment we open our eyes to the moment we fall asleep, the main drive is to enjoy life.  This desire commands our lives and eventually becomes the only way we relate to life; it becomes part of our imagination.  Consequently the only messages we receive from our brain (imagination) are those planted by us, by our desire to have it good.  Tomorrow we’ll discuss the effect this has.

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We are called ‘B’nei Yisrael’ ​to identify with our nation’s purpose in this world. B’nei Yisrael ​defines a people following  in the footsteps of Yaakov Avinu ztk’l, the shalem [whole} and tamim {perfected} of our Avot. Yaakov Avinu was originally called Yaakov but later Hashem named him Yisrael.

Many of us may have experienced moments in our lives where we yearned for greatness beyond our physical limits and base drives and became frustrated at our limitations. The foremost disciple of Rebbe Nachman ztk’l, Rebbe Natan ztk’l teaches that Yaakov Avinu’s descent from Be’er Sheva to Charan is a parable for the soul’s descent from the higher realms into the lower world. On his way to Charan, Yaakov famously dreamed of angels ascending and descending a ladder. This teaches that even as we dwell below, we can still ascend to great heights beyond this world.

The dream also teaches that life consists of rise and fall. Descent is an indispensable part of ascent. Understanding this fundamental principle allows us to grow from our experiences and downfalls and build on knowledge we accumulate through life and let go of mistaken beliefs. It teaches that we can celebrate the downward as an opportunity to rise up again, to embrace the whole self not merely the positive experiences.

This teaching applies to many instances in life. For example, a mature adult will let go of their childish beliefs and dreams. Though it may feel scary or lonely, ‘letting go’ of unhealthy old habits and beliefs actually is a step forwards. And by embracing our ‘negative’ character traits we are seeing them as providing us with a positive impetus to grow and thus accepting all parts of ourselves.

​We are called B’nei Yisrael. We are a nation who rise and fall, build and dismantle, move forwards and sometimes backwards. No matter what the direction, we are always moving, striving, growing in order to reach a place of perfection.

Today’s daily dose of emuna is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of my dear Father-in-law Shaul ben Miriam. May Hashem send him a complete healing among all of Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering, b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen.