Monthly Archives: May 2015

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The Hidden Gem

May 11, 2015
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Today’s daily dose of emuna is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of Binyomin Simcha ben Adina Minya who just underwent brain surgery to have a tumor removed. May Hashem send him a complete healing refuat hanefesh v’refuat haguf among all of Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen.

The coming parsha Bechukotai can be difficult to read; lined with blessings and curses. Hashem has a plan and the Jewish people are destined to live according to His will and live up to His master plan. We can rebel against it and live life feeling cheated; that is our choice. Or we can elect to live with the truthful understanding that Hashem is compassionate in all His ways and wants only good for us.

In every experience there is a message carefully packaged and addressed for us. However we need to unwrap the package with the proper approach – without anger or distrust but with a sound belief that it holds something dear and valuable for us. The difficulties surface particularly when we fail to discover the tremendous good that’s hidden within.

For example we may find ourselves thinking or saying, “My children are so selfish” or “My husband does not show love towards me”. What unseen gem could possibly be hiding in these feelings? There is a part of me that I would rather forget about namely the character trait of selfishness seen in my children and coldness displayed by my husband.

Seeing life from this mirrored perspective turns every circumstance into a training program to be a better me. In effect this is a blessing in disguise designed to help me achieve wholesome spiritual and emotional health.

1-800-ALMIGHTY

May 6, 2015
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Today’s daily dose of emuna is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of NOACH TZVI BEN GITTEL-a 14 year old boy from Lakewood very seriously injured in a bike accident. May Hashem shower him with a complete healing among all of Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen.

We want to come closer to Hashem; our core being remembers how wonderful it once was to bask in the Divine radiance.  Deep in the subconscious we have full knowledge of Hashem’s existence and His eternal compassion and love for us and the Jewish people.

We should strive to remember that this luminous albeit hidden place exists. Mindfulness is the first step in seeking out this G-dly connection. Often we do not take notice and advantage of our link to Hashem.  Unfortunately this increases the way we perceive life’s challenges as we feel detached and left to battle on our own. But we are not alone.  In fact Hashem is in constant communication with us on what is going on around us and where we are heading.

Hashem is our ‘tour guide’ and ‘motivator’ directing us through life. What is required of us is a good dose of humility to realize that we can’t do anything alone; we must continually seek out Hashem’s help and advice. ‘Taking Hashem along’ with us – in our thoughts, deeds and speech uplifts and elevates us.  We are able to solve our problems with more success and less stress.  The wonderful part is that we never need to make an appointment; rather pick up the ‘phone’ and dial 1-800-ALMIGHTY.

Challenges ~ Who Needs Them?

May 5, 2015
Orit Esther Riter

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Today’s daily dose of emuna is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of Refoel Yosef Baruch ben Chava.  May Hashem shower him with yeshuot and nechamot, a complete healing refuat hanefesh and refuat haguf among all of Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen.

We undoubtedly do not call challenges upon ourselves.  Yet when we experience hardships we are forced to face the truthful reality of existence; Ein Od Milvado, there is No One other than Hashem.  As a result of the removal of the false notions that we are in control, we are gifted with clarity of vision and now can interact with our loved ones in a more authentic way.  All relationships are strengthened when people are real and true to themselves. Many times this comes after going through difficult situations.

And although we don’t ask to be tested, we have much to gain as we can sharpen our coping skills with each successive challenge. With repetition we actually change the nerve pathway settings that are responsible for channeling our emotions.   That is why it is so imperative to practice new habits until they become second nature; essentially forming new neural conduits.  Practice what?  Practice letting go and letting Hashem run the world.  We are not privy to know exactly what Hashem’s plans are, but we can accept the events in our lives as being the best that they can be.

Hashem has only one interest; shower the Jewish people with compassion and give them many possible opportunities to earn eternal reward.  We cannot go through life alone, we need Hashem in every way, place and time.  When we seek Him, we see Him, even in the smallest details of life.  Then we truly recognize that we are never alone, He is here with us in our happiness and as well as in our sorrow and this recognition enables us to gain the most out of every experience.

Are we on track?

May 4, 2015
Orit Esther Riter

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Today’s daily dose of emuna is dedicated to the refuah shleimah of Shalom Pincas Elisha ben Miriam Shaindel. May Hashem shower him with yeshuot and nechamot, a complete healing refuat hanefesh and refuat haguf among all of Klal Yisrael who are sick and suffering b’karov, b’rachamim, Amen.

The foundation of so many frustrations in life stems from our conscious and many times unconscious feeling that we know better; we can re-write our lives so that it flows with greater ease. Do we live our lives as an ‘employer’ (boss mentality) or ‘employee’ (worker mentality) in this world?  There is a world of a difference in the two.

Let’s be honest.  If we assume that we know better, life will be lived as a rebellious battle against Hashem.  And we won’t win!  We are partners in this world to repair it; we do not own it.  Consequently the only pathway to inner composure and calm is to involve our ‘Partner’ in our lives.  Let us change our perception of seeing Hashem as chas v’Shalom doing things to us and view them as happening for us (not as a punishment but as a warning call saving us from harm).

A fundamental Emuna teaching is that Hashem ‘talks’ to us through the circumstance and people in our lives.  If something is not going right, we must view it as a message from our ‘Partner’ telling us that we are not on track in our ‘business’ called life. What is the business of life? Staying on track towards our soul rectification which we cannot attain unless we get Hashem involved.

Every opportunity, person and experience is here to communicate how ‘well’ we are scoring and staying on track.  Hashem has tailor designed our lives to ‘train’ us and get us to work on repairing our lives.  We have more strength to cope with the hardships than we think.   Each incident carries us one step higher on the spiritual ladder.

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